Learn to Understand

In social life we are dealing with many people, whether it’s family, friends, work environments, the general public and so on. When everything goes smoothly it all seemed comfortable for the living, but what happens when the wind began to blow with unusual.

When problems start to appear on the surface, where ordinary people who we know well and who we feel have been no mistakes even as a role model, without us ever guess and estimate on the fact they have a bad attitude even against the norms.
What is our attitude, whether we will be directly away from it?, Left them, cornered, blame them?, We should remember that it is caused for no reason. Everything that happened must have been something that triggered it so that this happens.

Good people are not people who accept us when we do good to them, but people who can understand us when we do wrong, he’s there for us, trying to understand us, to straighten out our mistake, not leaving us.

This paper is inspired by my sisters on the MLB.

6 responses

  1. In the name of Allah…yes,surely it happens with each of us.its said that when a person is getting better,he comes to know more and more of his own follies…And forgetful of others follies..our sins are our diseases and those most loved by Allah, are chosen to treat and care for us…Allah loves those the most who show the most love mercy to his creation alhamdulillah…

    1. Salam.. sister…:)

      It sometimes appears without us knowing it, sometimes we do not mean to, but what we do have hurt others. And we felt justified by the attitude we take, because we know other people do wrong. at the same time those who do wrong they want to understand, not abandoned.

      If there is something wrong, we should be trying to help people who have done wrong is, that he realized that it was wrong, and promised not to repeat them.

      Anyone could have made a mistake, but they also need to be given the opportunity to improve..

      Whallahu’alam..

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  2. I like!🙂 mashaAllah!

    1. Salam… Jazakillahu Khayran 4 da comment🙂

      barak Allahu feekum…

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  3. MashAaAllah, your article is so great, it is true that good people are those who are selfless, they are those who help others without expecting in return, they help others WITH CLEAN INTENTIONS FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH (SWT), IKHLAS..
    DOING ANYTHING GOOD TO PLEASE ALLAH (SWT)…YOU CAN FIND TRUE FRIENDS IN ISLAM NOT ONLY FRIEND BUT REAL FAMILY, NOW A DAYS IN A SOCIAL NORMS, WHEN YOU HAVE MORE SUCCESS IN YOUR CAREER YOU HAVE MORE FRIEND AND RELATIVES, BUT,,WHEN YOUR BROKE, TOTALLY DOWN, HAVE A LOTS OF PROBLEMS,,EVERYBODY WILL LEFT YOU ALONE,,EXCEPT THE REAL ONE…

  4. Thanks for all of u my broth/sis for the comment, may Allah bless u and keep your eman madal hayah..

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